Hey ! If you are reading this, then there are two things I wanna tell you personally;
Firstly, Thank you for reading my blog
and
Secondly, You are loved,
regardless of who you are or how you are right now, cause this also is a part of you. Nobody's validation matters.
Now, this article might contradict the initial line of not needing anyone's validation, but what we must understand is that the validation we worry about is from the depicted standards of the society rather than actual people that care about us.
The emotions and feelings of a person, is very much under-estimated in the so called society.
Be it happiness, sadness, excitement, agony, anger, loneliness, anything it maybe - the genuine respect towards a human's emotions has almost totally been wiped off, the modern world we live in.
But, Before blaming the society let's look back on you.
The term "self" is often neglected by you. The self-worth, self-value, self-care, etc.
Not valuing your strength, weakness, emotions and oneself.
Unless something really bad happens, you keep pushing yourself down comparing yourself to others who haven't been in your shoes.
All of us are facing problems in our lives that are quite difficult from our respective point of views. The matter of right and wrong becomes invalid in the pile of emotions, which is why
"Never Make A Decision When You Are Emotional"
Even though you go through various emotions, you fail to see that of others.
The responsive action you present for someone should be neutral that it shouldn't affect the receiver's feelings.
You never know what the other person is in for.
Learning to accept all of your emotions as a part of yourself and realizing that every individual around you also has the same level of emotions, helps you understand life better.
Happiness - the emotion comes to you, when you start accepting yourself. And sums down to everything starts with yourself.
I know that it's easier said than done, but believe me am not the one to just give people life advices. I do understand that's kinda bullshit 😌
The best gift that I would suggest for yourself is,
"take time to understand yourself, your inner feelings and deepest emotions"
this is like a secret pixie dust that most of the people don't want you to know. So, let's keep this a secret between ourselves shhh.... 🤫
Acceptance and patience are two important factors for this gift to work. I hope you will work on it.
Valuing human beings is the most important lesson from emotions. When you see another person, what will your thoughts be ?
Let me know if you got the Gift I suggested !
- miracles happen ðŸŽ
~zonkysin